Never underestimate your impact on youth when you interact
with them. I always tell the story of an
Assistant Scoutmaster that yelled at me when I was a first year scout when I thought I was trying to be
helpful and washing a Dutch Oven with soap and water. The
lesson I took from that incident is not that soap is not how you clean a Dutch
Oven (well actually I did), but the more important lesson I learned is that
when you are dealing with Scouts always put in context what they are doing before
you get angry.
A scout is Trustworthy, so to say that I never yelled at the
boys of little Troop 5 would be one heck of a lie. However, my voice will raise when the boys
impact a health and safety issue.
Teenage boys tend to push the health and safety because they have no
fear. I have seen boys leap across 100
foot drops, play with copperhead snakes, and create their own boat to drift out onto a large lake. I will not even go into
the stupidity with fire.
This is relevant because this past weekend, Little Troop 5 reemerged
as participants in the Order of the Arrow lodge. As scoutmaster, I lost a two generations of
boys in the troop because one adult in the Lodge made a bunch of candidates go
home because of some strange interpretation of national policy five
years ago. Voices were raised over something that had nothing
to do with health and safety. That one
adult caused a break in the chain of a long tradition of Troop 5 having active
participants in the lodge. This
participation manifested itself through ceremonies, chapters, tribe and lodge positions. Little Troop 5 has had five youth vigils
while I was scoutmaster.
Over the years, my boys have been asked how big our Troop is
because of the level of active youth in the lodge.
They are always surprised we are not a super troop.
This past weekend, the orange hats of Troop 5 were again
seen and made an impact through service and ceremonies. Congratulations to our new Arrowmen and Brotherhood members.
Maybe we can learn a lesson from this one adult, just as I did from one so many years ago.
Maybe we can learn a lesson from this one adult, just as I did from one so many years ago.
Scouting would be a better place overall if even a fraction of the active leaders shared your sentiment.
ReplyDeleteAmen! Proud to have been In scouts with you, and just as proud of the impact you are having on the current generation.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your wise words and experience .
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